"Regret is to be the category.... Anyway, sometimes, I wish I hadn't revealed anything about having been sexually abused, although I didn't seem to have any other option at the time. I am the enemy, the bad-guy, the liar, and the reason that various family members will have nothing whatsoever to do with Christ.... I only hope that what I did PROTECTED the younger siblings. Even so, I have successfully blurred the details. It's not a huge deal, and sometimes, in order to foster any dialogue, and do right, and honor my parents, I want to tell all that I lied. Who knows that the LORD doesn't hold me responsible???"