"My wife and I have been married for three years. I have always been the bread winner in the family. Recently tables have turned, my good fortune has been on a decline, my wife on the otherhand is making great strides in her new management role. She earns more money than I and works long hours. I have begun to feel insecure and doubting of myself. With no provocation, I lash out at her and sometimes make a gesture to hit her. I am angry and frustrated firstly for letting my emotions overrun me and secondly for feeling insecure about my future and financial situation. I am also starting to take my frustrations out at the office. I feel that I need to control my emotions...but it consumes me. I don't want my anger to turn into abuse."