"I have a new boyfriend. He is still friends with his ex. He says she is just a friend and is a great person. She hangs up the phone when I answer it. It makes me angry to hear him talking to her. I happen to know of her through another friend and know that she cheated on him when they were together with several guys in residence. I know that it would be just mean to tell him but it makes me furious every time I suspect he has been talking to her. I want to make her go away and am fantasizing about bad things happening to her and sometimes to him. "